Two crucial questions to ask yourself when dealing with a relationship with someone with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Over many years of contemplation and reading comments on this blog it occurs to me that if you are feeling stuck and don’t know what to do about a NPD relationship that is not working for you, ask yourself the following:

  1. Why do I believe that I deserve to be treated like this?
Why do I believe I deserve to be badly treated?

We accept the love we think we deserve






I am the only one who can change

I am the one who must work out what and how to change


2) What do I need to do to change my situation and my self?